How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 01.07.2025 03:59

How does one succeed in life?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Does not procrastinate.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I promote my Amazon KDP books on TikTok?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Is it okay for a wife who comes home from a date to tell her husband what she did?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What are the upcoming trends in artificial intelligence and machine learning?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Ask yourself:

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Why do we let ugly men exist?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What is your most erotic sex story?

That's it for today.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Does Trump have a deal or not with Russia on Ukraine, or is Putin just playing him?

Do not set goals—set systems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Is Melania still angry that she failed as a model? Why is she so cold and hostile? Why did she blame everyone for her actions in her trite book?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why are people calling the Biden/Harris administration a disaster for the US economy?

Making more friends is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

What I need from you?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.